I know what you’re thinking. And no, it’s not that 50 shades. We were so fortunate to shower my sister and her upcoming arrival over the weekend. Because my sister and brother-in-law want to be surprised when the baby arrives, she’s asked that everything bought for baby be gender-neutral, which means we’ve bought a lot of grey.

When Danielle first found out she was pregnant, she mentioned to me that she wanted a “50 Shades of Grey” baby shower. I thought she was insane until she explained that she wanted many different shades of grey incorporated into her baby shower. Thankfully that was a lot easier than what I originally thought she intended.

At a cute little spot nestled in the West Village of Manhattan, we set up in the gorgeous covered back patio. True to her theme, each guest was given a different shade of grey napkin, along with neutral flowers in a grey galvanized metal vase. We dined on a delicious brunch with an Italian twist.

Prior to the shower, I’d asked my sister what kind of cake she wanted and Danielle, who doesn’t like cake, requested a lemon-poppyseed cake. While all of my usual bakeries didn’t make such cake, I had to attempt to make my own. It didn’t come out as sophisticated as I would have liked, it tasted delicious.

Guests left with paperwhite flower bulbs that are gorgeous when they bloom and require very little tlc.

We were so thankful to have guests travel near and far to celebrate the arrival of Baby Henderson. Harlan and Avery attended and loved being able to attend a “grown up” event. They are super excited to have a new baby cousin, who Macks has most affectionately named “truck.”

As you can see from the photos, Danielle loved being showered with gifts for her little one. I have to admit, seeing all of that little baby gear made me have a tad bit of baby fever. (just a tad.)

We love you so much, Danni! We can’t wait to love on our newest member of the family.





We’re a little Star Wars obsessed in our family. We’ve hosted not one, but two Star Wars birthday parties (see them here and here) and it’s almost a daily conversation in our house. With the release of Star Wars: The Last Jedi coming this weekend, I thought it would be fun to round-up some gifts for those that love Star Wars as much as we do. Many of these gifts we have or I’ve purchased for the kids for Christmas, while others are just lust-worthy (those shoes are on my wish list.)







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My family is growing! Nope, I’m not pregnant, but my sister is! As the oldest of four, I’ve been the only one with kids for over eight years now and thrilled that my little sister and my best friend is expecting. Although I’m not pregnant, it has been a lot of fun getting to talk pregnancy and baby gear with her. Rather than shopping for us now, we’re always shopping for this new little bundle of joy. As she gets closer to her due date and that little baby arrives, you’ll start to see a lot more baby content on the blog again. I’m hoping my sister, Danielle, will share more about her journey of becoming a mom and stepping into motherhood here as well.

As she prepares for her journey, we’ve been doing a lot of baby gear shopping. With three kids and working in the industry for as long as I have, I feel like I do know a thing or two about baby gear. In honor of my baby sister expecting her own baby, I thought I’d share some of my favorite baby items that every expectant mom should have on her registry.


  1. Bugaboo Bee5: When we lived in the city our stroller was our main means of transportation. The features of the stroller were important to us for many reason. When purchasing a stroller, it’s important to look at your current lifestyle. If you live in the suburbs and know you’re going to take the stroller in and out of your car often, you’ll want to make sure that it’s lightweight and compact enough to fit in the back of your car. If you’re active and like to do a lot outdoors, something more all-terrain might be the best for you. The Bugaboo Bee5 is the latest Bee model for Bugaboo. I used the Bee in the city with Avery and loved it for many reasons. It’s lightweight, can accommodate an infant, and the seat can be both forward facing and facing towards you. The style compatibility is so fun for those who are into making your stroller an extra fashion accessory. It’s super easy to maneuver and had great suspension, even when I strolled through the uneven sidewalks in Manhattan. This is a great choice for my sister, who is still a city-dweller, as she navigates the subways and streets of New York City with a  baby in tow.


2. Ergobaby Omni 360:  It wasn’t until Avery that I realized how amazing baby wearing is. It helps during the witching hour, is a life-saver when you have more than one little one, and it makes it super-convenient to have baby close to you. I am a bit of an Ergobaby addict and have many different styles of their carriers, but I really love their newest carrier, the Omni 360. This carrier has everything you love about Ergobaby all wrapped up into one. You can carry baby in the front, hip, or back. It does not require an infant insert (YAY!) and you can also carry baby facing outward. It’s super comfortable for both parents and baby and it even comes with a detachable storage pouch. Although Macks is nearly 4 years old, he still loves being worn and we’ll often do it when we’re out exploring and he just doesn’t want to walk or go into a stroller. The Omni 360 is a great baby carrier that will get you through infancy well into toddlerhood.



3.  DockATot: Although this wasn’t out yet when Macks was a newborn, I have found a lot of use with the DockATot Grand           Dock. Macks continues to struggle with sleeping through the night and the DockATot Grand has helped us out immensely. We use it in his bed so he won’t fall out and then move it into our room on the floor for those nights that he insists on coming into our room. The smaller version, the DockATot, has rave reviews and I cannot wait for my sister to use it. I love all of the different covers that all you to customize for your style.



4. Owlet Smart Sock 2: If there is one thing that kept me up at night when all three kids were newborn, it was making sure that they were okay when they were sleeping. I vividly remember going into their room to put my finger under their nose to make sure they were breathing. It’s a genuine fear of many new parents, and it’s completely justified. The Owlet Smart Sock 2 can give parents some piece of mind when they go to sleep each night. The Owlet Smart Sock 2 silently tracks your baby’s heart rate and oxygen while they sleep and notifies you if something is wrong. That means that while baby sleeps you can too. This was number one on my sister’s must-have registry list and I cannot recommend it enough.


5. Finn + Emma Play Gym:  This was a favorite of Macks’ during his first year. It’s a piece of baby gear that you are proud to show off in your home. Made of birch wood, this play gym is height adjustable, comes with both wooden toys and hand-knit toys that you can easily take on and off so that you can attach them to a stroller or high-chair. When Macks was a baby, I’d lay him down on the ground with this over him and it would keep him entertained for the longest time.



6. Ollie Swaddle: One of the number one reasons my kids woke up in the middle of the night when they were newborns was because they’d somehow broken out of their swaddle. No matter how much I practiced, they somehow wiggled their way out. I know that many parents have little swaddle Houdini’s of their own. The Ollie Swaddle helps your little one stay snug and swaddled because it has velcro and allows you to easily access their diaper for changes without having to unswaddle them. That means that those middle of the night diaper changes can go much more smoothly and your little one will be back to sleep in no time.


7. Feltman Brothers: I spent a lot of time picking out the kids’ going home outfits. As much as I love to dress them on trend, I knew that the going home outfit had to be something classic. The Feltman Brothers prides themselves in creating classic clothing for babies through toddlers. Many of their pieces are hand embroidered and are lovely enough that your children will be able to pass them down to their children. They are heirloom pieces that you’ll want to cherish forever.




8. Summer Infant Video Monitor: I’ve tried A LOT of video monitors and nothing compares to Summer Infant. When Harlan was born, over eight years ago, we purchased the very first Summer Infant video monitor and it still works. They’ve obviously made many updates to the monitor as technology improves, but this is one that you will no doubt get a clear picture, great sound quality. They have many different video monitors that you can choose from based on your needs, but I can assure you that no matter which monitor you choose from Summer Infant, you’ll love it. It will give you comfort knowing that you can keep an eye on your little one as they sleep peacefully.


9. Fisher-Price My Little Lamb Swing: When the kids were babies, I’d try almost anything to get them to sleep for an extended amount of time. The only thing that consistently worked with all three kids? This Fisher-Price My Little Lamb Swing. This swing holds a special place in my heart because it was the only thing that soothed all three children. It might not be the most stylish swing on the market, but it gave me the peace and quiet that I needed when I just couldn’t get them to fall asleep or stay asleep. The seat can sway side-to-side as well as back and forth.


10. Stokke Tripp Trapp:  If you want a high chair that will last your little one well into adulthood (yes adulthood,) then get the Stokke Tripp Trapp. I have these for all three kids and when the kids weren’t using them, we used them for our guests to sit in at our table. They have a kit that allows your infant to sit with you from day-one and then you can transition as your baby gets older and into toddler-hood. Once they are old enough, you can remove the harnesses and they can sit in it like a regular chair at the table. It’s made of durable, solid beech wood, and available in several colors, this is a high chair you’ll love to bring up to the table.



11. Marpac Zohne Sound Machine: This sound machine saved me from so many sleepless nights. I started using it with both Avery and Macks since day one and not only has it helped drown out the noise from the hustle and bustle in our house, the white noise helped with our sleep routine and helped them stay asleep when they woke up in the middle of the night. The white noise allowed them to know that if they woke up and it was on, it was still sleep time. When we packed for our vacations, this was the first thing that I packed.