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I got our car detailed a couple of days before we began our road trip up and down the East Coast. I thought that if we had a clean car, it would be much easier for us to maintain an organized and clean trip.

I laugh at myself now because, while it was nice to have the car clean those first few days, it didn’t last. While I tried to maintain the cleanliness, there’s a lot that goes on during road trips, especially long ones. And even more when you’re doing it by yourself.

We had the car filled with luggage, activities for the kids, and lots and lots of snacks. Macks isn’t entertained by much in the car (not even an iPad,) so we quickly found that as long as he had a snack, he was happy. With mutiple 10+  hour car trips, you can imagine how many snacks that little boy goes through. And with all of those snacks, it leaves the car a mess, his carseat even messier, and his clothes the messiest they’ve probably ever been.

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He’s spilled his milk all over him, has managed to bring his cookies into a liquid form so that he can smear them everywhere. It’s a disaster. But he’s happy, so it’s a cheerful and smiley diaster. As long as he’s content and lets me drive with peace, he can make as much of a mess in the car and himself as he wants. I’ll try to get him as clean as possible during our stops with the Tide To Go Instant Stain Remover, but it’s almost a lost cause because as soon as I put him back in his car seat, he’s got more stuff spilled on his outfit.

As soon as I get to our destination, I usually bring all of our stuff inside and get to cleaning. I’ll grab a vacuum and grab all of the crumbs and stuff that the kids have left behind in the car. I am a bit crazy when it comes to things being clean, so having a clean car as soon as I can makes me very happy.

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The next stop is starting the laundry. With all of the stains and gunk of Macks’ clothes (and sometimes the girls) I know that they need to get washed as soon as possible. I’m usually exhausted by the end of the trip, so I want to get the clothes washed and dried as soon as possible so that I can get some much needed rest.

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It’s become a tradition since we’ve moved into our house that the girls help me with the laundry, so even when we are traveling, they still organize the colors and then put them in the washing machine for me. They think it’s fun, so I am going to ride that train as long as I can.

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Macks still struggles from eczema, so I always bring our Tide Pods Free and Gentle with us while we are traveling. They are easy to pack and even easier to put in the wash. Before I switched over to the Tide Pods, I’d always have a puddle of dried laundry detergent on the top of my washer that had run down the bottle. It was a mess to clean up. Plus the Tide Pods have detergent, stain remover, and brightner, so I can easily throw one in the washer and I am ready to go. The Free and Gentle Pods have no dyes or perfumes and they won’t irritate Macks’ skin.

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And even with our dirtiest clothes, those little Tide Pods do a lot of work and got all of the clothes clean from our very messy road trip.

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I know my kids aren’t the only ones that are messy. Tide is challenging you to take the Tide Pod challenge. We did it and it got even the dirtiest clothes from Macks clean! Check out this Tides Pods Challenge video and watch as The Slow Mo Guys (love them!) put their clothes to the Tide Pods test!

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They insist on sleeping on the floor next to my bed each night. Most nights we aren’t headed to bed until well after nine o’clock, two hours past their bedtime. When they don’t have their bed to sleep in, they take advantage of be able to sleep next to me and I enjoy it in return. Every once in a while, they find their way into the bed with me leaving me an inch of the bed and taking up the rest. It’s vacation at it’s finest. But while we’ve enjoyed this time together, our month-long vacation is nearing it’s end and it’s time to head home.

Being out of our routine is starting to show in the kids. Bedtimes are off, all three aren’t sleeping as well, and their patience is running thin (as is mine.) They’ve kept their smiles throughout, which I am so appreciative for, but deep down I can tell that they want to return back to the normalcy of our lives.

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When we set off on our adventure a month ago, I focused on all of the fun that the kids were going to have. The quality time with grandparents, unlimited time at the pool and the beach, and exploring new places. What I failed to think about was the toll it was going to take on the kids. They adapt to nearly any situation very well, but it’s when it’s a long amount of time, they start to miss home.

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Harlan came up to me the other night and told me she was homesick. She misses her daddy, her bed, and just being home.

Macks is getting fussier by the day. He wakes up crying and is just generally cranky most of the day. I’ve tried to maintain somewhat of a routine with him, but I can tell he misses our usual day-to-day.

Avery’s temperment is usually so laid back, but she’s starting to get upset about more and more lately. The other day I took all three to lunch and Avery threw a flat out tantrum at our table. To the point where a lot of people in the restaurant started looking. It was so not like her.

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But while I know all three are ready to get back, this month has taught them to lean on each other when they need it.

Harlan has been the first to go into Macks’ room when he wakes up in the morning crying. She takes him out of the crib and holds him before I even have the chance to get out of my bed. He takes comfort in her need to nurture.

Macks and Avery have become two little peas in a pod. They fight like normal siblings do (more so than the girls ever did) but will love and hug on each other the second they get the chance.

They’ve become a team, these three. A team of three that will look into one another when they’re sad, mad, or happy. A team of three that makes sure the other always has a smile on their face to cheer them up. A team of three that tells each other everything will be okay when their down. A team of three that truly loves one another.

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We’re headed home on Thursday for our last little adventure (a 12-hour car ride!) The girls are already making plans of what they will do as soon as they get home. I know we will slowly fall back into our old routine and everyone will be back to themselves again.  But while there is a comfort of being in our physical home, this summer has taught all of us that as long as we’ve got each other, we’re always home.

 

 

 

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Every summer when I was growing up, my grandma would come down to our house and visit us for a couple of weeks. She grew up in the Philippines and knew all of the best Filipino recipes. She’d cook for us all of the time and we indulged in every single bit of it. Her most famous Filipino recipes were adobo, pancit, and our favorite, lumpia.

She made what we called “big” and “small” lumpia. Her small lumpia were tiny rolls filled with ground beef and her big lumpia is similar to a spring roll, with vegetables and a little bit of meat. I always preferred the big lumpia, but those were a bit more time consuming. She’d make the big ones just for me and I’d eat every single one of them.

Two years ago my grandmother passed away. It was a devastating loss for our family. I’d never experienced death before in my life and although I was heartbroken to not have her in my life anymore, I made a promise to keep her spirit alive within our family. Whether it was through card games of gin rummy that she loved to play (and cheat at,) or trying to perfect her famous Filipino dishes that she never seemed to have a recipe for, she just winged it.

Last week, we did just that. When we were at my parents house I told my mom that I wanted to make the big lumpia. We’d made the small lumpia several times since my grandmother’s passing, but never sat down to take the time to make the big ones.

My mom gathered all of the ingredients and, just as my grandmother did with us, the kids sat down at the table and she taught them how to make the big lumpia. This might sound weird, but I felt my grandmother there with us as we rolled those lumpia. I’d hear her tell us, “too much water honey” or “be careful not to rip it Lauren.”

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I told the girls how I used to do just what they were doing when I was there age. I hope they cherish these moments just as much as I did.

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And grandma always thought you were never too young to start learning how to make lumpia, so Macks got in on the fun.

While grandma never had a recipe for her lumpia recipe, we did the best we could with what we remembered and I wanted to share this very special recipe with all of you. This is something that is so near and dear to my heart and I hope that if you do make them (and I promise you, you will want to make them) you think of my grandmother Pearl when you do.

Here’s what you need:

  • 1 head of Chinese Cabbage (shredded)
  • 1 head of Regular Cabbage (shredded)
  • 2 cups bean sprouts
  • 1/2 cup green onions (chopped)
  • 1/2 cup long green beans (chopped)
  • 1 cup onion
  • 3 tablespoons garlic (minced)
  • 1 pound ground pork
  • salt and pepper to taste
  • dash of soy sauce
  • Spring roll wrappers
  • vegetable or canola oil
  • small bowl of water

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While your chopping up the first five ingredients, fully cook the ground pork and set aside. Once you are done with that, grab a big pot and saute onions and garlic until clear.

Mix the first five ingredients in a bowl and add to pot with onion, garlic, and cooked ground pork.
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Put on medium heat and cover, stirring occassionally. Cook for 30 minutes or until cabbage is soft. Drain well. Add salt and pepper to taste as well as a dash of soy sauce and mix.

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Once the cabbage mixture has cooled, grab the spring roll wrapper and get ready to roll!

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Grab one wrappers and put it in the shape of a diamond in front of you. Put a wet paper towel over the other wrappers so that they don’t dry out.

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Take a spoonful of the cabbage mixture and put on the bottom of the wrapper.

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Roll the bottom part up one and take the water and lightly wet the two (horizontal) sides of the lumpia wrapper.

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Fold the sides in so that they stick (if they don’t stick, use more water.) Wet the top corner.

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Roll the remaining part of the lumpia until complete (if it doesn’t stick, use more water.)

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There is no wrong or right size for the lumpia. They all still taste delicious!

Once you are done rolling, heat up the oil and put the lumpa in until the wrapper turns a golden brown color.

Set on a paper towel to soak up the extra oil and let them cool.

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Enjoy!

We always make the lumpia with my grandmother’s famous sweet and sour sauce, but don’t even ask me how to make that because no one in our family has really perfected that and it takes a whole lot of standing by the stove and mixing things and tasting until you think you have the perfect combination. But of course what I think taste like grandma’s sweet and sour sauce tastes completely off to someone else in my family. I’ll perfect that recipe one day so I can teach it to my children and continue grandma’s legacy, just as she would have wanted me to.

For now, let’s just enjoy this lumpia!